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Okay so I suppose I should update, I've been stalling a bit I guess. Just because I know what some people will probably be thinking about me when I do, but they already do, I can't change that, they don't know me well enough anyway so I don't care. So on with the updating!
About 3 days before christmas eve I found out I'm pregnant again. Yes that's right again. I'm due Aug 27th, I'm only 8wks at this point. And before you go assuming that my husband and I are just irresponsible or plain stupid, I'm going to put all the details behind a cut link if you don't want to hear about it then don't read it.
( sometimes it happens even when you're careful )
Okay so now to the happy portion, we are very excited. It's a baby, being upset is pointless cause it's coming whether it's in your plans or not. Besides I love being a mom and it always felt like I should have one more. As for it being a girl or a boy we'll be excited with either. We always try to have names for both so we get attatched to the idea of having either. So anyways, everything is all good for us we are happy. Not to say it isn't kinda scary, three kids under 3 is pretty stressful but I'm having faith that God wouldn't give them all to me now if I couldn't handle it.
No it isn't a secret. That would just be silly and a bit strange. So tell whoever you want to. I would just appreciate if I didn't hear anyone saying negative stuff about us. Nobody likes to hear that kind of stuff. And I know that most people know me well enough so I don't have to worry about it, but there are those few and I would just rather be oblivious to their opinions. It isn't that I really care what everyone thinks of me, it's more of a "I don't need to hear that crap" kind of thing. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion.
Okidoke so, Mike and I went to Kobe Steakhouse Tuesday for our 2nd anniversary. It was a blast. We met another couple there about the same age as us. They both go to UNO with Mike but he hadn't ever met them before. They were pretty cool. We talked awhile after the chef left. The other people at our table were pretty interesting too. The guy next to me was there with his mom for his 21st birthday. At first he ordered just ice water but I think his mom asked the waiter to him their special for 21st birthdays. Then she made him do a bunch of shots and stuff. I felt bad for him cause you could tell he didn't really want to drink right then. I don't think he liked it very much. It could have been that he was planning on drinking with his friends later and didn't want to over do it before hand, or he just was really fond of drinking. I dunno, I just felt bad for him. The last couple at the table were kinda oddballs i guess. The guy just seemed kinda like the suave hair slicked back kinda guy, who you look at and think "seriously?" the girl had some kind of black liquid eyeshadow that covered her whole eyelid up to her eyebrows and it continued out past her eyebrow like the cleopatra look but way thicker. Then she had the wildly designed finger nails that were "how do you go to the bathroom" length. And there was no way that her hair was that long and perfect, had to be extensions. Yeah so that was a fun and interesting night. We enjoyed it. |